I’ve never been out with anyone in my life.Not even those elementary pretend dating things.How long did it take to find your soul mate? And if you know in your heart that a certain somebody is the one,are they the one?
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September 2nd, 2010 at 5:15 pm
God did. What the key word soul – to me it means davine mate. You’ll know when it’s right but don’t rush.
September 2nd, 2010 at 6:12 pm
i dont believe in soulmates
September 2nd, 2010 at 6:58 pm
There is no such things as soulmates. If you spend your life waiting for one, and building the impossible person up in your mind, you will never find anyone and die alone. No one will ever be able to live up to that.
September 2nd, 2010 at 7:28 pm
A few years
September 2nd, 2010 at 7:31 pm
I married the first girl I dated in high school and we’re still together 8 years later!
September 2nd, 2010 at 7:41 pm
I believe you can have multiple soulmates, and not just romantic ones.
September 2nd, 2010 at 8:15 pm
Haven’t found it yet.
September 2nd, 2010 at 8:42 pm
Still searching, sadly.
September 2nd, 2010 at 8:49 pm
The heart is fickle…. so take your time and don’t believe media hype about soul mates. Pray a lot, play little and go slow….
September 2nd, 2010 at 8:56 pm
it took me about 10 years to find my soulmate. and you will know when you have found him/her when you know u cant live without them truely and they cant without you you have found him/her
September 2nd, 2010 at 9:41 pm
i found him when i was 9 going on 10 years old…in 2000. And i kno he is my soulmate, i love him 2 death. He is the one, God told me so.
September 2nd, 2010 at 10:25 pm
You will have many soul mates throughout life…including friends and even complete strangers. You just have that connection and it continues throughout life. Some last a minute, some last a lifetime.
September 2nd, 2010 at 10:42 pm
26 years. Woot. Been together 5 years, married 2, identical twin boys on the way. You know when you find it. If you’re not sure, it isn’t right.
September 2nd, 2010 at 11:40 pm
first one when i was like 12 i met, but it got screwd up
was depressed after that
guess whatever power out there gave me another one
whether it was God, the universe whatever you believe
17 years of a rough childhood, met another one
always ran into each other..
just ran into each other, that’s really how we met
something caught my eye
I think you have to have a pure heart before you can meet them though
like, try not to be a greedy person
start to care about other people, love unconditionally and smile at others
don’t be afraid to be nice to people just because they might not be as nice back
and just live your life, because i promise you it comes unexpectedly
don’t ever just go out saying “im going to find a boyfriend today” it’s not like that, you just run into them
EDIT: I agree with the person who said you might have multiple soulmates, I’m not sure about that idea but I think he’s on the right track
and for the people that said it wasn’t real, I think they need to look at themselves..
you always attract people who are like you
so if you have bad people in your life, look at your own faults before you look at theirs
why complain about not having true friends if you are not a true friend yourself?
they are real and to the guy that said “get real there is nobody out there that is perfect for you” or whatever
first off, true love isn’t about loving the perfect person
it’s about loving somebody despite their imperfections
September 3rd, 2010 at 12:07 am
Soon to be marrying the girl I had to wait 15 years to find. We have been together for over 2 years and have never had a fight, just disagreements.
September 3rd, 2010 at 12:13 am
I was 32. He was 42. Now I’m 42
September 3rd, 2010 at 1:02 am
yes i had 25 wonderful easy years with my soul mate and yes he was and we knew it. he and i wre like two peas in a pod. we did everything together and we loved each other. he died of 3 cancers and i miss him so much it was this past may. when you find the person you will k now and they will know its something you;ll never forget everything is the same for each likes dislikes and stuff.
September 3rd, 2010 at 1:13 am
Well when i met the guy i wanted to keep in my life i was 13 years old!!!!LOL but it might be different for you.
September 3rd, 2010 at 1:53 am
Some people search for a lifetime and never find them because they don’t open their minds and hearts to the possibilities. They have a “ideal” person who they are looking for who does not exist in the real world, only in their minds, which closes the door to all others in the real world.
September 3rd, 2010 at 2:45 am
Grow up…there is no such thing as a soul mate..ask all the divorced people. Ask all the HS kids that got married after graduation and got divorced 2 years later. When you meet a guy please don’t lay down for him thinking that will hold on to him…All boys want is in your pants until they get a lot older.
September 3rd, 2010 at 3:17 am
Well, I’m 25 and found my soul mate when I was 24. We got married in August.
I started dating when I was 15 so that makes almost 10 years before I found him. Then again, even if I’d found him when I was 16, I don’t think that it would have worked. We found each other when we were supposed to.
You’ll know they are the one when you can be yourself — completely be yourself, silliness and stupidity and all of it — with him/her. It’s cliche but it’s true — you’ll just know. That person will make you happy, won’t make you anxious or sad or angry. You’ll want to be a better person just so that you’ll be better for him or her.
Gosh that’s cheesy. Hope it helps, though. =)
September 3rd, 2010 at 3:52 am
LOL! soul mate
get lost. there’s no such thing as someone who is perfect for you
it takes work and sacrifice and a lot of love to get a good relationship.
there are probably a million people out there who would be suited to be your ’soul mate’
September 3rd, 2010 at 4:30 am
Took me seventeen years and three months.
September 3rd, 2010 at 4:36 am
Agree with Juliet. You can have more than one soulmate… Those best friends that will never go away.. Then plus the one you love I guess.
September 3rd, 2010 at 4:46 am
You know you’ve found the right person when you’ve just had an argument with them and realise if you walked out, you’d only have to go looking for someone exactly the same. Well, maybe someone who remembers to put the bins out and their socks in the laundry
I met my partner when I was 21. We’ve been together 6 1/2 years and are about to have our second child. We love each other and work well as a team, but I still find him a pain in the butt at times! We’d probably been living together 2-3 years before we felt 100% committed. Well, we obviously wouldn’t have had kids together if we weren’t committed. We’d been together about 4 years when we decided to try for our daughter.
September 3rd, 2010 at 5:09 am
It took me a very long time to understand what a soul mate really was. Growing up and hearing people say.. I just love him.. I just lover her..Especially when the other people just looked at them or just said hello… Never could figure out how in the heck are they in love and why is that person your soul mate.
But exploring that statement took alot of dating and dysfunctional relationships , only to find that a soul mate is really already in us…In otherwards, once your heart has encountered love that takes control of you.. what you wear, what you say, where you go, how you think, how much you eat, how much you spend money, sleepless nights,how fast you do things and forgetting things, Trust me… you will know that you have met your soul mate. It’s just something that lives in us and displays our hearts in a way that we don’t see too often. It allows us to be this person that we live to avoid at all costs. Yet when it does release and shine.. when we do feel our best, look our best it’s the ultimate connection .
A soul mate is not someone that you find , it finds us… It lives in us and brings the best out of us….