Have you ever found yourself stuck in a marriage you are not happy with and then found your soulmate in another person? What did you do? Did yous tay with your spouse out of obligation or decided to go for the soulmate?
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April 12th, 2011 at 10:42 am
I would no point in making everyones life miserable.
April 12th, 2011 at 10:44 am
“Soulmate” is a bullshit word used by people as an excuse to do whatever the hell their selfish azz wants to do…..
April 12th, 2011 at 11:12 am
relationship outside marriage is miserable
April 12th, 2011 at 11:39 am
Do you really have to have sex with your soulmate? Take the sex out of a relationship and what do you have? A friendship. Why not have the friendship with your soulmate and the sexual relations with your husband. If you cannot do that, you are not soulmates, its nothing but lust.
April 12th, 2011 at 12:05 pm
My Fiancé had that situation before…. He chose me. It’s a hard choice… I don’t recommend leaving your spouse for someone else…. It will bite you in the butt later on
April 12th, 2011 at 12:08 pm
Life is too short. But before pursueing another partner have respect for your current partner and file for divorce.
April 12th, 2011 at 12:22 pm
LOL Married but found your soulmate in someone else? Good luck with that.
April 12th, 2011 at 12:53 pm
This has never happened to me—so I don’t know what I would do.
P.S. I’ve been married three times.
April 12th, 2011 at 12:59 pm
I knew a guy once that left his wife for his “soul-mate”. He married her and was divorced one year later. “Soul-mate”?? What the hell is that? It’s a made up word to assuage the guilt of wrecking your marriage for some new meat. Good luck.
April 12th, 2011 at 1:35 pm
This is really a hard place to be in. Do you have kids?? For me my vows were the most important covenant that I ever could make. My faith and my husbands faith are what our marriage is based upon. There have been times that I have been unhappy but I took a step back, looked at me and what was going on with me and then turned to my faith to get me through. We can’t base our happiness on other people, we are the only ones who can find it…for me it is in my faith that I find my joy & strength. My prayers will be with you.
April 12th, 2011 at 1:40 pm
you did it wrong what comes around goes around watch out
April 12th, 2011 at 2:16 pm
I’m going thur now, i decided to divorce my husband b/c it wasn’t working and me and my soulmate are now were working towards our future.
April 12th, 2011 at 2:34 pm
i haven’t been through that before, but i’d definitely go for the soulmate, why the hell u might stay with someone u don’t get along with and blew ur chances with the only one u might be happy with?!!!!??!
April 12th, 2011 at 3:25 pm
Sounds like a fantasy………….Better get a grip before it controls you.
April 12th, 2011 at 3:54 pm
I would doubt this is your soul mate if you are already married. Most likely just lust, either way you are headed down a hurtful road.
Happiness is a choice. Work on your marriage. Remember what attracted you to your mate to begin with and start over again. Don’t give up and don’t quit because you are going through hard times.
April 12th, 2011 at 4:12 pm
My spouse was a jerk. He lied about lying, he wouldn’t keep a job, he cheated, he hit me (yeah, I kicked his ass, but still…) I met a wonderful man at about the same time I told my husband that the marriage was over. I let him move to the basement of our townhouse apartment out of kindness and began dating the new man. The soon to be ex got physical with me again for no reason other than he couldn’t handle the divorce. The neighbor called the cops, he was arrested and I moved his things to his mothers house that night.
I ended up marrying the wonderful man I met, we had a son together and he is a wonderful parent to all of the kids. I do not have any contact with my ex and he has no contact with the children.
In my case, I know I did the right thing and am very happy. I do not know your situation. If your husband is a good man, then try to save the marriage. If this other man is truly your soul mate, he will wait for you. Stop all contact with him for 3-6 months. Work on the marriage. If it doesn’t work out, then you can be free to divorce and pursue a relationship with the man you believe to be your soul mate with a clear conscience. If the marriage is saved and you are happy, then you know you have already married your soul mate, that you were just going through a tough patch, and you can spend the rest of your life with him.
April 12th, 2011 at 5:07 pm
The grass is NEVER greener on the other side. It is way more worth it to work on you marriage rather than just tossing it away like you did not make a commitment. If that person that is with you did not respect your marriage, what makes you think he is going to respect you later and not leave you for someone else?
April 12th, 2011 at 5:40 pm
Yup, that is the story of my life…I was married for 8 years, and the last 5 were awful, fights, disinterest, I didn’t even sleep in the same bed for the last year (I always made excuses not to go to bed at the same time, and then “I fell asleep downstairs on the couch”) and we had 2 kids which made it worse. I did try to talk with her about it, but nothing changed. Then, I met a wonderful woman at work, our friendship grew, and when I got divorced. we started dating. We had declared our feelings about each other shortly after she knew I was going to file for divorce, but we didn’t begin dating until later, I didn’t want to feel like a cheater. We dated for 6 years, and now we are getting married in a month! My feeling is, you need to try to make things work with your spouse, but if that is not possible, then don’t stay married and ruin your life. The fact that you “found” your “soul mate” is irrelevant to this discussion. You shouldn’t stay with your spouse if you aren’t happy, whether you have kids or not. If you do have kids, just promise yourself that they are the priority, not your “Soul mate”. If no kids, then don’t let the door hit you on the way out.
April 12th, 2011 at 6:19 pm
Mable has the answer.
April 12th, 2011 at 6:42 pm
Stargazer, you must be an anthroposophist!!! My wife is and she decided after 10 years of marriage that she has a spiritual affinity with another person (her new “soulmate” – even though I was for the first 10 years of our marriage). Therefore, she wants a divorce, no marriage counseling for her – she just know that she is meant to be with this person. Her feeling is that she just has to do this or she will die spiritually.
I think it is a bunch a sh*t, but I can not change the way she feels right now.
April 12th, 2011 at 7:17 pm
how could you find your soulmate if you are married??? Stepping outside of your marriage is call being unfaithful, whoring and all those other sinful things no matter how we try to dress it up!!!!!!!!! Always remember that the grass never fails to look greener on the other side it is not until we get on the other side that we see it for what it really is. Put that extra energy into your own marriage and remembe marriage is what we make it out to be if we don’t (both) put nothing into it that’s what we will get out of it.look up, get up and lift it up!!!
April 12th, 2011 at 7:58 pm
I have to admit that I am currently going through this situation. I have been married for over 12 yrs. The last 6-7 yrs have been h*ll for me and my daughter. He works only when he wants, won’t do anything around the house to help (I wrk 50hrs wk) and has had repeated affairs for years. He even requested that we have an open relationship (of course that was only good for him, not me). About a yr ago, I started to be friends with a neighbor who was a friend of my husband. Well things progressed, and we developed a close friendship that we both know is leading somewhere else. Though he has yet to directly say that he wants me to get divorced, he did have a long talk with my adult daughter who visited for a spell last holiday season. He told her that he hates the way that my husband treats me (he isn’t her dad), and that I deserve better. He told her that he wants to be the one to show me how a women is suppose to be treated. They talked for hours about him and I getting together, she informed me. I have now decided to get the divorce that I should have gotten when he demanded we have an open relationship. I intend to move on, as I now know what true love is.
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